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Kathryn_

13 сентября 2022 г., 11:41

The advice monster commonly... «The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever»

The advice monster commonly comes in three personas:
The first is called “Tell-It.” This monster convinces you that the only way to add value to a situation is by being the leading authority, and always having the right answers. It loves hogging the spotlight and explaining, loudly, why its opinion is more important than anybody else’s.
The second type of Advice Monster is called “Save-It.” This persona is more subdued, which makes it harder to spot. “Save-It" types won’t jump on a soapbox to shout about their ideas, but they’re equally convinced that they hold all the solutions. What’s more, they believe that they – and only they – can save the situation, and it’s their moral responsibility to do so.
Lastly, there’s the most manipulative Advice Monster of all – the “Control-It” persona. This monster wants to convince you to keep a tight grip on all things at all times, or risk plunging your world into chaos. It teaches you that others are not to be trusted, so you must bravely run the ship by yourself – or else!